The homosexual relationships can turn out to be what they have always subconsciously sought and if their homosexuality is more than a passing phase for experiment or in answer to an occasional urge for bi-sexuality, then it can lead to the establishing of a secret life: a heterosexual life with a public face and a homosexual life in the shadows. The results can further complicate their already complex and shaky emotional state or, because their inherent homosexuality is no longer latent, they may take all known risks to lay foundations for a changed pattern of life. Many men come out of the gay closet because of M-M.

‘When I found he was sleeping with a guy of twenty-four I was more relieved than shocked. At least it was a man. I could handle that. Had he been sleeping with a woman I would have doubted my own sexuality.’

Cristina, forty-two, divorcee, New York.

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