IDEAL MARRIAGE: FUNDAMENTAL EQUALITY – ARE THERE NO DRAWBACKS TO THIS PROGRAM OF COMPLETE EQUALITY?
Posted by admin under Men's Health-Erectile Dysfunction | Permalink | | Leave A Comment
Are there no drawbacks to this program of complete equality? What will become of the children, for example, if women possess economic independence, which can be attained only by working outside of the home? And will there be any home at all? These questions are the stumbling blocks in the elevation of woman from the mere status of cook, housekeeper and nurse-girl to that of a fully developed human being who can be a real companion to her husband. The difficulties are not so serious, however, as conservative people would like to make them out to be. Beyond having to take several leaves of absence from outside work during pregnancy and lactation, there is no reason why a woman should have to neglect her career on account of children.Day nurseries and pre-schools, which can eventually be made part of the public school system, not only enable a mother to pursue her daily work outside the home but are much better for the child than the type of training or lack of training that it receives from most mothers. And the attention which both the father and mother can give to the children in the evening and over week ends will lend all the “personal touch” that is needed. As a matter of fact, with both parents working, with housekeeping done for the most part by specialists in that field, and with most meals eaten in family restaurants instead of laboriously prepared at home, both parents will actually have more time to devote to their children in a constructive way than at present. The improvement too in the relations of husband and wife, which will result from greater equality, will make home-life even more real and pleasant than it has been under the old regime, and both parents and children will be happier.Objection may be raised to woman’s entering industry because this will flood the labor market, reduce wages and throw deserving men out of work. While there may be, and in fact are, some difficulties of this sort, yet they may be regarded as merely transitional. Besides, the entrance of women into industry is quite gradual, and probably, if present tendencies continue, the population will sooner or later be sufficiently reduced to enable both men and women to have employment, with reduced hours and better pay, brought about by the continued improvement in industrial technology and in the greater power of workers to demand their due share of the products of industry. It is beyond the scope of this book, however, to enter into all the intricate economic questions that the proposed equality of the sexes raises. If the ideal is worth attaining, surely it can be made economically practicable.*106\275\8*